Learn from the wise, truely skilled and experienced.
Solomon, the wisest man who have ever lived on earth,: http://www.stpaulshalifax.org/sermon030914.pdf
Wisdom is a divine gift that God gives to people and you can ask for it.
If we seek wisdom, then we need to ask for the Holy Spirit to take hold of our minds and inhabit our hearts.
Everyone needs a mentor and Jesus is the best mentor ever; walk with Him.